DAM I really need to post more on here.
DAM I really need to post more on here.
Dose anyone have a fetlife profile ?
This is my little (but tall as fuck) sister, Amber. Her name used to be jon, but she realized that deep inside she is a girl and she is one of the most beautiful girls I know. Yes, it had taken me a while to get used to the fact that instead of having a little brother to get into fights with I now have a little sister to teach me how to do my make up so well.
I just wish my dad would see her the way I do. Every time he calls me he brings up amber and how he’s soooo uncomfortable with it and starts making fun of his son and what he’s going through. And it’s like, I’m trying so fucking hard to support the both of them but it’s really hard because I can’t even call him on Christmas. He asked what Amber got for Christmas and 2 of the things were a purse and some make up. And he immediately goes
"no I’m good, I can’t ever imagine getting my SON a purse"
He feels like his son has died. But it’s just like..your son may have died but a daughter is being reborn.
I think of amber as a beautiful, spunky hilarious girl. My dad thinks of her as a rebellious cross dresser.
I love my dad but goddamn, it’s getting to be too much.
She is as cute as fuck omfg!!
the feels <3
The first trailer for ‘Through Her Eyes’ - A short film depicting the struggles and challenges of life, from the perspective of a young trans* women.
Full film coming out in late spring 2014.
More details to come.
Follow the film on:
It is easy to fall into the trap of thinking that campaigns and films like this are not important, and that we have little to fight for.
But that is simply not the case – throughout this campaign I have highlighted just a few of the problems and encounters with transphobic abuse that the director and other crew members faced, and now – within 5 minutes of the release of our trailer.. this comment is made:
“WTF! Trannys are weirdo posers why cant they just be themselves? Quit posing and just be yourself (man if penis, woman if vagina) keep these tranny fagbrains out of my skatepark no posers allowed! They just pose instead of being themselves and thats not cool!”
Please, we would encourage you - more then we can convey online – to support projects such as this, and help them to break down barriers, and create a greater level of empathy and understanding towards the trans* community.
Please do watch, and share it around in any way that you can.
Lily & the team.
I’ve compiled this list of resources to help trans* people like myself. Even if you’re not trans* and/or can’t use any of this, please reblog for the sake of others. Thanks!
The Tumblr Transgender Clothes Exchange
How to Take Measurements
Reflectore Voice Pitch Tracker
The FTM’s Complete Illustrated Guide to Looking Like a Hot Dude
The Male Fashion Fit Guide
AK’s Guide to Suits (this is a drawing guide, but contains useful info)
Throat Exercise to Deepen Voice
Big Brother Binder Repository & Re-Disbursement Program
In a Bind Binder Donations
Underworks Pullover Binders
Les Love Boat Binders, Packers, Underwear, Shoe Lifts, Etc.
Cheap Clasp Binder
Discreet STP Device
Women’s Clothing Terminology
Tucking How-to Guide
Realistic Breast Form Tutorial
The Breast Form Store
Mastectomy Bras with Built In Flap for Breast Forms
How to Contour and Highlight Using Makeup
How to Apply Eyeliner with a Spoon
How to Apply Foundation
How to Apply Blush
How to Apply Eyeshadow
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
IMAlive Online Crisis Network
Transgender Housing Network
National Center for Transgender Equality
Transgender Law Center
Change your Name for Free - Civil Indigent Status (Tumblr post)
Copwatch Infographic Guide
Transgender Surgeons in the U.S.
Center of Excellence for Transgender Health
FTM Hormone Guide
FTM Surgery Guide
MTF Hormone Guide
MTF Surgery Guide
Mcalc Gender Neutral Menstruation Calculator
Mental + Support
Online Gender Therapy (can also issue letters of recommendation)
Emotional Baggage Check
School + Education
Trans Student Equality Resources
Study Abroad for GLBT Students
Applying to College as a Non-Binary Trans* Person
Susan’s Place Transgender Resources and Forums
Laura’s Playground Transgender Resources
This is the biggest reason that I get so dysphoric when I was younger. As a Male to Female trans women it is something that I know can never have. people can say that I am messed up or even sick but it is something that I always wanted to feel and experience, but I know it can and will never going to happen.